Balanced approach

I have anoticed recently a change in approach for many people. In society we seem to be keen, very keen in fact to pick people up on their faults, point out where they o wrong, and the things which aren't quite right, and we do this even more with young people. But isn't it true that we all enjoy having people say nice things about us, we all seem to do better with some encouragement rather than constant criticism. We all need to be picked up on the things we do wrong, Jesus even did it with his disciples, but he was also loving, caring and showed it constantly to people. So why don't we as the church, change things in society, and yes, pick people up where necessary, in kindness and positivity, but let's also remember to be positive, and encourage others in life and the things they do, you never know you might just see greater results from a positive approach rather than a negative approach.